The conversation is etched in my brain because it shaped my life. It was one of those times something is said that is so clear, true, and powerful that the moment you hear it, you sense your life may never be quite the same.
Here’s the story. [Read more…] about Seven Powerful Questions: Personal Development Made Practical
And I’m wondering this for two reasons. [Read more…] about How to Know If You Learned Enough Last Year
I spent many years “doing” personal development, and honestly, nothing changed. Not the way I felt inside. Not the way I treated people. Not the way other people experienced me. Not the way I handled money. Not the way I handled power. I “knew” a lot more. I “understood” myself and others better. I had more tools in my toolkit. But I hadn’t “built” anything different from what already existed. Why? [Read more…] about Personal Development = Five Attributes
Real personal development restores balance to the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual (PEMS) aspects of ourselves.
What is common is a state of imbalance. This imbalance is reflected in all that we’ve covered so far in this series of posts on personal development…
In this post, I’ll share how to use the Levels of Development from the Enneagram to fuel your personal development efforts. I’ll tell you how to determine (and validate) your Enneagram type. Further, I’ll be opening my client vault to you and sharing some of the same Enneagram materials I developed and share with my clients.
I’m impressed with how the Enneagram often provides a “lights on” moment for the people I work with. That’s why I’m excited to share it with you. It is a little work, and takes a little time (like 30-60 minutes). But the Return on Investment can be very high. Here’s an example of the Enneagram in action, combined with small group development… [Read more…] about What Holds You Back: Unlocking Enneagram for the Powerful, Personal Insight
Ever noticed this? One moment you’re bumping along just fine, in another moment you are in melt-down and doing or saying things you later regret, and in yet another moment you feel like you are in a state of flow experiencing an at-one-ness or connection with Life that defies words.
Same you, radically different internal states and external actions. What gives? Let’s talk.
Before we do… [Read more…] about Personal Development = Increasing Your Awareness
We’re on the hunt to define what personal development actually is. Our approach? To look at it from four different perspectives. The primary reason you might want to know what personal development actually is…
When you understand the context, your personal development efforts will be much more effective.
In this post, we look at personal development through the perspective of “adult development.” In the prior post (here), we defined personal development in general terms. I’ve been using the analogy of walking around “personal development” and looking at it from four “scenic overlooks.” Here, we reach the first of the four scenic overlooks. Ready? [Read more…] about Personal Development = Increasing Mental Complexity
A lot of people try to “do” personal development, but the majority don’t know what it is. Last week, I wrote here that I’m a man on a mission to change that. Why? Because I believe “not knowing what it is” is the primary reason so many people don’t get results from what their personal development efforts.
When we have a context for something we are doing, we can do it better and faster. Further, we stand a better chance of improvising and adjusting appropriately when things inevitably go wrong. And things do go wrong, right? [Read more…] about Personal Development, Defined
I’m on a mission. My mission (over the next month) is to help people who are interested in personal development get better, deeper, more sustainable results — faster — by actually knowing what personal development is.
My mission, in a nutshell, is to help you…
I have a secondary objective, too. I see people “jump in” to personal development without knowing what they are getting into. This can cause multiple issues (which we will get to later).
Before jumping at the chance to do personal development because everyone else is doing it, because it sounds cool, or whatever, it might be good to pause and to consider what it is you are getting yourself into. Forewarned is forearmed, as the old saying goes! [Read more…] about My Mission: Help You Better Understand Personal Development
Something has really struck me lately…
Do people who are engaged in personal development actually know what it is? It seems like a funny question, doesn’t it? But I think it is a very important question for anyone considering personal development or actually attempting to do it. Here’s why… [Read more…] about Personal Development… Without Knowing What It Is?
